Living Alone as a Woman: 10 Ways to Feel Safer at Home

10 ways to feel safer at home

Moving into your own place is a huge milestone — exciting, empowering, and let’s be honest, a little daunting too. Whether it’s your first flat or you’ve just said goodbye to housemates, living alone as a woman comes with both freedom and a few fears.

The good news? Feeling safe isn’t about being paranoid — it’s about being prepared. Here’s how to make your space feel like the safe, secure haven it should be.

1. Change the Locks (Seriously, do it)

If you've just moved in, you have no idea who still has keys. Past tenants? Maintenance people? Exes? Get those locks changed as soon as you can — it's a small cost for peace of mind. You're not overreacting you just want to feel feel safe at home.

2. Upgrade the Basics: Curtains, Lights, Blinds

This sounds so simple, but it makes a huge difference:

• Keep curtains or blinds closed at night, especially in the front rooms or bedroom.

• Use smart lights or plug-in timers to create the illusion you’re home when you’re not.

• Add a lamp near your front door so you’re not fumbling in the dark.

3. Get a Video Doorbell or Camera

If you're renting, this can feel like overkill — but many video doorbells (like Ring or Eufy) are totally renter-friendly and easy to install.

You’ll always know who’s at the door, and most record footage too. Even having one visible can act as a deterrent

 4. Fake a Housemate or Pet

This one’s old school — but it works:

• Hang an extra coat by the door

• Leave out an extra pair of shoes

• Get a “Beware of the Dog” sign (even if you’ve only got a houseplant)

  
  

Little touches make it look like you’re not living solo.

5. Door Safety Matters More Than You Think

Always use a chain or door restrictor when answering the door to someone you don’t know. Don’t feel pressured to open it just because they knock — even if it’s someone claiming to be from the gas company.

 6. Share Your Location (With One Trusted Person)

There’s something oddly comforting about knowing someone else can see where you are. Share your location with a close friend or family member, especially if you're out late or on a date.

7. Trust Your Gut (Always)

If someone’s knocking and something feels “off”, don’t open the door. If you feel weird walking home, change your route or hop in a cab. If you're anxious about a handyman appointment, have a friend pop over or FaceTime them while the person’s there.

 8. Double Check Before Bed

Yes, it’s the classic "Did I lock the door?" moment. Make it part of your bedtime routine:

• Front door locked? ✅

• Windows shut? ✅

• Lights off or on timers? ✅

  
  

It helps calm your mind — and helps you sleep better.

9. Create a Calm Bedroom Vibe

Your bedroom should feel like your little sanctuary.

Think:

• A dimmable lamp or fairy lights

• White noise machine or a calming playlist

• Cosy bedding and your favourite scent

  
  

When you feel secure and relaxed in your space, it becomes easier to enjoy your own company.

10. Remember: Living Alone Is a Power Move

You don’t need to apologise for it or explain it away. You’re independent. You’re building your own space. And while being safety-savvy is important, don’t let fear rob you of the joy of solo living.

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What to Do

Why It Helps

Change the locks

You never know who has a spare key

Use smart lighting & blinds

Keeps your routine private

Get a video doorbell

See who’s knocking without opening

Fake a housemate or pet

Adds an extra layer of “presence”

Trust your instincts

They’re there for a reason